Easter Holiday 2012 : History & Celebrations

Posted on 4/2/2012 at 12:36:46 AM

Just like Christmas, Easter is an important festival among the Christmas. It is marked as the day when Lord Jesus Christ rose from his dead three days after his crucifixion. This day is also known as Easter Sunday, the Resurrection Day, and Resurrection Sunday.

There is no perfect day to celebrate the event. The Easter Sunday was established by the Council of Nicaea, and recognized since then after the Paschal full Moon. The celebration of Easter thus varies between April 4 and May 8 every year.

Easter Holiday Celebrations

History of Easter

The New Testament of the Bible, the holy book of the Christians indicates that the resurrection on the third day after Jesus died made him the powerful Son of God among the human beings. It is considered to be an order directed by God so that the Christians begin to take their life in a new direction.

The ‘Passover meal’ or the Last Supper is closely associated with the Easter celebrations among Christians. On this day every year the bread and wine is shared among the church disciples.

In the early years, the Easter Sunday was largely considered a day for prayers but after the fourth century, even the Good Friday and the week before Christmas was marked as holy days. The principle feast of the ecclesiastical year as it is the corner stone on which the Christianity has been built.

The legendary story according to the Old Testament goes that Jesus was crucified after being charged of misleading the people and usurping the authority in Rome. As the Roman governor failed to establish any charges against him, the crowd decided to crucify him on the thorn of cross and nailed him to death.

He died three hours after his death and rose from the grave on the following Sunday. The day is marked as Easter and soon after the Last Supper feast of Good Friday ends, the fast for Easter begins.

Celebration of Easter

The ceremonial worship of the Easter holidays begin a week prior to the actual Easter Sunday. These are described as essential events in the scriptures. Several congregations still hold a three hour mass on Fridays, representing the time that Jesus was on the cross. Legend also implies Easter as ‘God’s Friday’, an expression that particularly became popular in the 12th century.

In churches like those in Goa, India, the Goan Catholics gather in the churches for the mass that is conducted in the state’s local language. The priests narrate the story of Jesus’ death and suffering on the cross. The moments of absolute silence are observed in the churches during this hour.

After the mass is over, several churches initiate a somber march in memory of Jesus walking with the wooden cross on his back to the place of his crucifixion. A cross is carried by any of the clergymen of the congregation and the crowd follows him often weeping.

Hope you turn your celebrations the most magnificent one by planning a voyage on the sea and taking the luxurious trip on New Year Cruises with your beloved.

Top 5 songs to say I love you

Posted on 3/2/2012 at 2:56:32 AM

Songs are one of the most creative and romantic way to express your love for your loved one. Love songs are a great help if you are a shy person and can’t express your love openly. There are millions of love tracks that express the beauty of true love in the most incredible way.

Following are the top 5 love songs which help you express your innermost feelings for your loved one in the most romantic manner.

    1. I will always love you – Whitney Houston

    2. My heart will go on – Celine Dion

    3. Underneath your clothes – Shakira

    4.  You’re still the one I love – Shania Twain

    5. Truly Madly Deeply – Savage Garden

Top 5 things for a perfect date!!

Posted on 3/1/2012 at 12:31:10 AM

When you are in love, everything seems to be at its best.  Lovers create a utopia of their own which is full of joys and memorable moments. Dating is a very essential part of a relationship. When two people are in love they want to spend a lot of time with each other, if possible they would spend the entire day with each other.

Make every date a perfect one

For a date to become a perfect date there are certain things that are very essential. Following are 5 most important things that need to be kept in mind whenever you go on a date or invite your lover for a date :

1. Always carry flowers, a card or a small present for your date :

It is always pleasant to be greeted and welcomed in a warm manner with some flowers or greeting card. You can even carry a small present as a token of your love.  This will make him/her feel special and will give a positive kick-start to your date.

2.  Wear a nice fragrance/cologne :

It is always a good gesture for you to get up and gently hug your date when he/she arrives. So, it is absolutely essential to smell good. Carry a small tester in your purse or bag and spray it once before your date arrives.

3.  Kindly get up when your date arrives :

When your date arrives, kindly get up and welcome him/her. This is a basic mannerism which should be exhibited as soon as your special one arrives.

4.  Wear the color he/she likes :

If you know your date’s favorite color, try and dress up in that color. This will surely get you many compliments and will create the right kind of ambience. Immediately compliment your date when he/she compliments you. When a date starts with smiles, it definitely ends with smiles.

5.  Don’t try to get too close without your date’s consent  - Respect the zones :

It is advisable not to get too close without seeking the consent of your lover. Don’t try to intervene with the personal zone if your date isn’t willing for that. Respect the zones and proceed accordingly. Don’t force him/her for kissing or public displays of affection. Be chivalrous and make your lover comfortable by doing what you both like rather than doing what you like and may be he/she would not.

Top 5 ways of building trust in a relationship

Posted on 2/28/2012 at 5:56:18 AM

Love is the sweetest feeling mankind can ever experience. The most essential element that deepens and strengthens love is trust. Trust can be understood as the heart of a human body. When you are in love with someone you open up and express everything whatever is  in your heart as well as on mind.

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Love is the most beautiful feeling but is the most sensitive one to handle.

If there isn’t any trust in your relationship, the relationship would simply rust. So to make your relationship eternal, building trust is very important.

Check out the following 5 simple yet effective measures for building trust in your relationship.

1. Share everything about your past :

It is always good to maintain transparency in your relationship. Sit down with your lover and talk over all your past relationships or any problems that you think should be put into his/her notice before starting with the relationship. Plan for a date or dinner at home where you can share even the minutest of detail from your past with your beloved.

Also, encourage him/her to speak up and share the same regarding their past. While listening to his/her past stories, stay calm and behave like a good listener.

Acknowledge each other’s past and then decide never to discuss it again. After all, past is past. But it is always good to know everything about your lover’s past. It introduces the comfort feeling and that bonding establishes.

2. Acknowledge each other’s flaws :

A relationship is all about loving an imperfect person perfectly. As you move ahead with each day of your relationship, it is always good to acknowledge your partner’s flaws without making them realize that it is their flaw.

3. Empathize with your lover :

Trust is the most difficult thing to build but the easiest to break. Whenever there arises a situation which makes the trust falter, simply empathize with your lover.

Get into his/her shoes, imagine the same situation and then evaluate if your lover’s action or reaction was correct or incorrect. Question yourself to think what you would have possibly done in such a situation.

When you undergo the same situation you will surely understand what made your lover to act that way, hence creating greater understanding and building the bond of trust.

4. Time, Love and Attention :

Time is the best gift which can be given to anyone be cause it can’t be returned. Give your lover a lot of time, love and attention because these are the three most important ingredients that are required to nurture a relationship.

With time will come a feeling of belongingness. With love will come a feeling of oneness. With attention will come a feeling of importance. With all the three together, will come trust.

5. Forgive easily :

“If equal affections cannot be, let the more loving one be me.” We should never forget that we all are human beings and to err is human. So if your lover makes any mistake or if anything goes wrong, relax and handle the situation in a subtle way.

Keep your cool and explain things in the nicest possible manner. Also, don’t carry anything in your heart. Communicate and solve the problem.

“Forgive and forget” is one mantra that helps in strengthening the relationship and bringing in a lot of trust. “Acceptance” of your lover the way they are is a very important point for an everlasting relationship.

Valentine’s Day Love kit

Posted on 2/11/2012 at 11:32:13 PM

Valentine’s Day is coming and it is time when everybody tries his/her best to woo their partners and even if you are single, then it becomes even more important for you to charm the person in your dreams, so here we are giving some love quotes, some love advice, some romantic advice and not too forget some flirting tips, though it is highly recommended for you to not to flirt on Valentine’s Day.

Super Five : Love Quotes for Valentine’s Day

- I feel strong, I feel steady, the moment I clutch my palm into yours.

- God has locked my destiny, and has told me that loving you is the key to unlock it.

- I was touched by love, the moment your shadow brushed past my face.

- Parachutes, Gliders, Kites, Jets, Birds need air to survive, but I just need your innate warm breath to survive.

- I never had any ambition in my life. And then, I saw you!

Super Five: Romantic Advice for Valentine’s Day

- Tell her to dress in the same dress in you saw her first time. Doesn’t matter if it doesn’t fits, :P

- This is something weird, eat a green chilly, ask her to dip her lips in sugar syrup (You won’t ask for water any more)

- Get a couch. Get some coffee. Get cosy

- Give a call in the middle of the night, and say “I love you”

- Make a xerox of your hand and give it to her so that she can feel your presence when you are not around.

Super Five: Love Advice for Valentine’s Day

- First be a friend, after that a boyfriend/girlfriend

- Never criticize your beloved for something which  according to you, is not right

- Be more romantic in your gestures

- Don’t behave like a over caring and overbearing jerk

- Never behave as if you possess your partner

Super Five: Some decent flirting tips for Valentine’s Day

- When you think the time is right, suddenly clasp her fingers in yours.

- Don’t be in the dreaded interview mode every time you talk to her.

- Be a little courteous. Gentlemen aren’t always boring.

- Flirting is a way of acknowledging someone. So do that responsibly.

- Sex’ is the last step, please don’t think about it in the beginning.